R.I.P. Karen
by TheeMahn on Apr.02, 2011, under Uncategorized
Yesterday @ ~ 2:40 PM Karen my girlfriend of almost 12 years passed peacefully of Cancer. She will be missed. Jimmy her son lost his wife last Thursday & now his mother. My heart goes out to him as well.
April 2nd, 2011 on 3:25 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours my friend…
April 2nd, 2011 on 3:26 pm
my thoughts and prayers go out to you. in your time of greef.
April 2nd, 2011 on 4:31 pm
I am so sorry my friend. This is truly sad news.
You need anything, don’t hesitate to let us know.
Your by no means alone.
Gúrú Linux ríomhaire
April 2nd, 2011 on 5:15 pm
Just install 2.9 on my desktop and I’m loving it.
April 2nd, 2011 on 5:17 pm
…I need to go eat I messed up and put my comment in the wrong place. Excuse me…
April 2nd, 2011 on 6:01 pm
I am truly sorry for your loss and for her son’s. Few words come to mind at a time like this. But, I am sure she will be missed by many. Hold on to her memory as long as you can. I may not have known exactly what you and her went through, but I do understand the pain of losing someone you love. My heart and prayers go out to you and her family. The suffering is over. She can rest, now. God bless.
April 3rd, 2011 on 7:03 pm
I do not know you except by your work. The only thing I can offer is a kind word and the heartfelt hope that you will find the inner strength to overcome this loss. There are no words anyone can say right now will take your pain and sorrow from you. Cancer is an indiscriminate killer that does not care who it takes or hurts in the process. I cannot imagine a greater loss in life than the one you love and depend upon.
April 2nd, 2011 on 6:18 pm
wow for me is very sad men all the good wishes. im current disabled and thanks to the technology i have a battery inplanted on back and help me with my daily limited activities im very fan of ue well gooodddddddd luck and ill pray for all from puerto rico..rafa
April 2nd, 2011 on 8:44 pm
My heart is with you man. Deeply Sorry about your moment. Rest you too. And cry so much, it is necessary to live. I don’t know how to confort you, and my words are nothing ,but if you have to talk anything I’m here to read and exchange experiences. See you.
April 2nd, 2011 on 9:06 pm
My condolences for your loss. You and your loved ones will be in our prayers.
April 2nd, 2011 on 9:49 pm
I will reply, to those that have posted. Now is not the time, I will attempt to bounce back. Please allow me to grieve. This is something I have been dealing with for ~9 months. I have 0 intention to leave you fellas hang. I have your back. Tuesday is the viewing, believe me will once again rip my heart out.
April 5th, 2011 on 9:27 pm
My condolences for your loss and i know from experience that you must take time to morn your loss, i lost my dad to cancer it is difficult to deal with talking with someone honors there memory and helps cope with the loss.If i can help in any way feel free to contact me @ xxjoker21xx@gmail.com patrick
April 2nd, 2011 on 10:55 pm
Wow. My prayers are with you. I just discovered UE about a month ago and so appreciate what you do. Take your time, grieve and know that you are in my thoughts. May God bless you and keep you, make His face to shine upon you, and give you peace.
April 3rd, 2011 on 12:46 am
My condolences
April 3rd, 2011 on 5:32 am
My deepest symphony to you and your family. Prayers for Gods love, comfort and understanding for all. May you be comforted and strengthened.
April 3rd, 2011 on 8:56 am
Dear thee
its very painful if you loose someone you love,and i do not have words for the pain you feel. all i can say may her soul live in peace.
dr.sudharaj
india
April 3rd, 2011 on 2:50 pm
Ohhhhh sad messages…Sorry for you and Jimmy.
I´m not an very good expert in these things,but the scryers say,that when someone dies he has to go through a special condition 12 month long.After 12 month you can make a contact with this person again.I think we all already made this kind of condition.It´s somehow like sleeping or dreaming.
I don´t know what to say right now….Tuesday is the viewing?Hey she will get a better body in a better world or a better sphere.
P.S.Be careful when you go to sleep,it could happen that she will try to cantact you:)She could look like in the younger years,because this is the Astral Body,but it could happen that she looks diffrent than you know her.Who knows..I just wanna say that you should be careful with your night dreams now.
April 3rd, 2011 on 3:19 pm
Dear Theemahn my heart goes out to you and your family its a very sad day when i lost my girlfriend in a car accident i went into lost mode i didn’t know what to do so i know what your going through don’t be like me and go into lost mode it is not very good just try to keep busy and mourn the loss but on that note i hope you and your family gets through the pain
all the best Hawks-soad
April 3rd, 2011 on 6:32 pm
I am so very sorry for what you are going through. You are in my prayers.
April 3rd, 2011 on 7:57 pm
Thanks so mutch for what you do with this software i often switch people from windows to your software and they love it.
Sorry to hear about Karen i now how tough it can be i lost a good friend to cancer 6 months ago and my mother 3 years ago.
Brett
brett@brett-birdsall.com
April 3rd, 2011 on 8:32 pm
My condolences, I’ll have you and yours in my prayers. From Puerto Rico with a great sorrow…
April 4th, 2011 on 3:03 am
TheeMahn, so sorry for your loss. Try to keep the good times with Karen in your thoughts. It will help with this pain that you are going through. There really are no words that will help. So so sorry.
April 4th, 2011 on 3:38 am
Take all the time off u need Theemahn. As the rest have said, we’re all very sorry to hear of yr loss, but watt can i say to comfort u? At least for Karen, all the pain, suffering & tribulation are over. Be happy for that. Shalom!
alf
April 4th, 2011 on 4:37 am
TheeMahn
I not sure if any of this helps you deal, but I do hope so.
Losing a loved one is never easy and much worse, to something as evil as cancer.
You are not alone.
April 4th, 2011 on 10:26 am
I am so sorry to hear this. God b with u in this tuff
time. take ur time my friend. we will be grieving with you as well.
April 4th, 2011 on 11:26 am
I´ve been a huge follower of your work, for many years ago since 1.4 version that was the first i knew, my hearth is sad for your loss and your son in law i feel so much respect for both of you in this dificult times. i just hope your brilliant work still be a distractor for your concern. you have a huge fan in mexico city, keep up. R.I.P. Karen
April 4th, 2011 on 12:08 pm
Sorry to hear it. She’s pain-free and at peace now. You are in my thoughts & prayers!
April 4th, 2011 on 12:29 pm
condolences on your loss, now she can rest in peace without anymore suffering and all her family and friends can in time remember her in better times. take care
April 4th, 2011 on 12:51 pm
Take all the time you need to grieve and recover. You are a good man, I think most of US know it.. Not many men would take care of their sick wife like you did for that long. I bet she would want you to live the rest of your life to the fullest and be happy..
Take care,
Jack!
April 4th, 2011 on 3:08 pm
My Condolences sir. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours…
April 4th, 2011 on 5:32 pm
I’m so sorry for that about bad news your girl friends…
Please rest your body and heart for a while.
I’m pray for your girl friend from Japan.
April 4th, 2011 on 6:39 pm
In sum of all words, giving peace and love, I know that in the far future, in some other time and space, they will be together. now you have a place where put their rememberings and love, and I know that the next edition of Ultimate will have a piece of them inside, to share all over the world my friend…
the best for You and your family
Pablo from Buenos Aires
April 4th, 2011 on 6:57 pm
Sorry to hear of your loss, she is at peace now ,no more suffering. God be with you and take the time you need to heal.
April 4th, 2011 on 10:43 pm
Mis condolencias,te deseo paz con Dios
April 5th, 2011 on 2:43 pm
I’m sorry I will have some prayers for her
April 6th, 2011 on 3:33 pm
when a loved one passes away, grief overcomes us. but don’t worry, because it should not have happened, but god thought it was best for her. for the time being you gotta be strong, not only for yourself, but also for her son.
be brave my man, because even though god has taken so much from you right now, he will try to make it up for you… and also, count on all of us, our devoted fans, for support.
April 7th, 2011 on 2:01 pm
As a new and pleased uses of U E, I appreciate you sharing of Karen’s death. Hard stuff. I know. God bless.
April 7th, 2011 on 10:59 pm
Truly sorry for your loss..may she rest in peace..
God be with you..take care from Stockholm Sweden
April 8th, 2011 on 3:28 am
I Know this is a bit late, been a little pre-occupied getting ready for a fight in court, as well as seeing a psychiatrist.
Everyone loses someone in their lifes… of course nobody likes it, but there isn’t much we can do.
…When I was 10, my best friend at the time, my next door neighbor, had apparently shot herself while I was away with family. Nobody really knew whether it was an accident, she was still young.
Then, about 2 years later, one of my friends had gotten hit by a car, after being in the hospital for a few hours, they just said her heart had given out. After being comforted by a mutual friend for about a month, the mutual friend couldn’t stand life without her. And they drowned themself, leaving a suicide note next to the pool…
About 3 years after, which was only 3 years ago… a friend good friend of mine, a neighbor I’d had for 2 years after moving. Committed suicide after being raped at the age of 16… I’d comforted her for a few weeks… and when she’d missed her period she went crazy and slit her own throat…
I don’t think anything I’ve experienced comes close to the pain you must feel from losing someone so close. But believe me, she wouldn’t want you wasting your life being depressed over the memory of her. She’d want you to live a long, healthy, joyful life, but please remember. Don’t take anything for granted, every moment you have on this earth is meant to be magical. Don’t let life slip through your hands because you aren’t sure whether or not to grasp it. Grasp life, don’t let go, live every moment to the fullest, I know its what she would want for you. All the best wishes in the world go out to you, I’m sorry for your loss, but everything in this world is to make us stronger. As my experiences have made me, I hope this experience helps you realize how short life can be. And that every moment should be cherished.
April 8th, 2011 on 10:50 am
I registered just to say this knowing as I did that it is not adequate.
There is no word or deed to really ease the pain of such a moment. I am far from young and have lived such moments too often to think of.
The only relief I found is time and the thought that never having known the love and presence just lost would be worse. Remember the good times and hold to the thought that having known those good times will one day bring comfort.
April 8th, 2011 on 11:28 am
TheeMahn,
Damn, so sorry about the loss of your girlfriend. I was a casual user of your distro and had decided to visit your site to see what was going on with you. When I saw your note that Karen had passed I decided to register and post this message. Cancer is very painful way to go but now your girl is at peace. Hopefully, you will compose yourself and be able to continue with your life. Good luck to you brother.
April 8th, 2011 on 7:13 pm
Though I don’t know any of you I’d like to offer my heartfelt condolences at your loss and hope that Karen is at peace and that your memories of her will help your healing process.
All the best to you all
Chris from Launceston Tasmania
April 9th, 2011 on 9:24 pm
TheeMahn & Jim
I hope you shall be well.
There is no way, Any one of us that can express in Any Words.
The way that You and Jim are Heart & Soul felt For Your Loving Karen.
In time all that stands is Your Heart felt Love for Karen.
Just Remember .
All the Love and Times at Her side.
It is hard To Look At Jim and not to think of Her Smile and the Look that made You fall in Love.
But that is What keeps You going through all those Times.
So to Both of You, Remember Keep it in Your Hearts.
I am Really Sorry.
April 9th, 2011 on 11:13 pm
I’m very sorry for your loss , I hope you have the strength to go through this ,I know it’s hard
…may she rest in peace.
April 10th, 2011 on 12:49 am
My condolences for your loss. You will be in my prayers
April 13th, 2011 on 1:44 am
I am truly sorry for your and Jimmy’s loss’. I’ve never experienced the loss of someone close to me so I won’t even begin to pretend I know how difficult and painful it must be for the two of you right now. I don’t know if you and Jimmy are men of faith but I am and I will be continuing to pray for you two and your families. May God’s peace be upon you and His Son Jesus Christ be at home in your heart.
win2linconvert
April 14th, 2011 on 4:51 pm
I am sorry I have not been attentive. I still have not grieved, my mother is concerned got me a book called “Good Grief”. I have not read a word of, i suppose you would have to know my mother to understand why she does the things she does & my father to understand why I have not snapped or broke down. It is coming then I will put myself back on track and give to the nix community as I should be doing. Please forgive my delay. I have said outlandish things on the net “venting” & apologize for any feelings that may have been hurt.
April 13th, 2011 on 2:00 pm
I am truly sad by hearing this, there is not much i can say or do to brighten up your day. But i am sure that Karen want you and Jimmy to have a happy and joyful life even if she is not there with you, i think thats important to remember in such bad times.
April 14th, 2011 on 3:59 pm
I am so so sorry dude. No words can adequately express my sincere sympathy in your time of loss. Grieve as long as you have to; know that others are thinking of you at this time.
Peace be upon your mind, body, and soul in these difficult times. May you gain strength in the knowledge that others are thinking (and praying) for you and your loved ones.
swarfendor437
April 14th, 2011 on 9:37 pm
My friend, its been a long time since I’ve stopped by. I am saddened to hear of your and Jimmy’s loss. Prayers go out to both you, Jimmy and your families.
As always, if there is anything that I can do, you can contact me at any time.
jfg69
April 17th, 2011 on 7:53 am
I am sorry for your loss………
Please remember to Breathe
Peace
Stephen
April 17th, 2011 on 7:54 am
Hi there, Just wanted to send my heart out to you and your entire family and friends. I lost my wife of 8 years from cancer and this was two years back and even now I’m unable to even think of meeting someone else but I am here if you need to chat as I know only too well how you must be feeling please accept my sincere word of hope I’ am only alive because of our daughter which was my wifes legacy other wise I would not have coped.
I send my blessings just take day by day or hour by hour a friendly hug is included and I wish you all godspeed.
James
April 18th, 2011 on 12:28 pm
I know that must be hard. I lost two people very close to me at one time not too far from now. Something that added to the pain is they died about a year apart. When I was just getting over one death, I was faced with another. Death is the most painful thing anyone can do to someone. It may not be done on purpose, but it always feels like they’re abandoning us. This is the reason I will never act on my suicidal thoughts. Everyone has them, I’m sure. I can’t be the only one. But suicide is the most selfish thing anyone can do. I’m very sorry for the loss you and Jimmy now have. I send my condolences and my thoughts. God bless you and your family.
April 23rd, 2011 on 6:18 am
i am late to know.. i do feel sorry for you my friend.. my prayer that God bless you always, be strong in Him…
April 24th, 2011 on 2:07 am
Hello TheeMahn, I am sorry for not writing sooner. I read this post earlier and had no words-I just felt horrible for you and it left me speechless. I do however want you to know that I have been thinking of you and wishing healing for your heart.I will be praying for you as you try to sort all this out. Take good care of yourself and those who still are important in your life. Know that you are also important to people!
In friendship and caring – distrodad